I can still remember when I was young and loved playing with my trucks. I would spend endless hours with neighborhood friends, building fake cities in the sand box.
Hearing Mom call out my name when lunch was ready. Of course the lunch whistle hadn't blown on my construction site, but with enough prodding I would go enjoy a wonderful peanut butter and jelly sandwich Mom had made with love. Then back to my building project.
Then the dreaded day arrived where I was informed that my construction supervising job was being eliminated during the day shift. School I was told was going to be a fun and exciting venture. School? I had work to complete!
There was no negotiating my next step in life. Mother knew best! At least that's what I was lead to believe. So, for the next umpteen years she drove me to and from school. There I made an entire new group of friends.
My Dad owned a construction company and I was taught to work from the time I was 6 years old. Mom ran the office, Dad ran the field and my sister and I were the gophers. What a blast that was, we worked hard and played hard.
From the success of their company, Mom and Dad provided (OK, spoiled us kids) with fantastic trips, (all 50 states, and many other countries) and nearly everything a child could want in their life. My childhood was a dream come true, of course when you are young you don't realize this fact.
My parents were able to retire at a young age, and my sister and I continued to run the business Mom and Dad put so much time and energy into. They provided jobs and a great living to nearly all the family members including brothers and sisters of our spouses. For that, they received very little thanks.
The business survived for 46 years, until the change of the Michigan economy caught us with our pants down. Heavy on unsold inventory and land took it's toll. Sorry Mom and Dad, we gave it our best shot.
I can't foresee the future and worry about them daily. Being in good health removes some of the fear, but as they sneak up in age I start to reflect back on those years. I recall Dad telling me "someday you won't believe how fast that time flies by". Of course when I young and in school, it dragged. Today I wonder where did the day go, where have the years gone.
My inspiration in life can be attributed to Mom and Dad. My teachers in life, my guidance counselor, sometimes my police, grin, my nurse, my house keeper (sorry Mom), my banker, but more importantly my Mom and Dad!
Thank you for all you have done in my past, present and future. I love you both.
Don't forget to hug your parents, without them, you wouldn't be here!
My ThemThem to the greatest people I know.
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